Over the past month as I have been preparing and getting excited for the Christmas season to be here, I have been pondering a lot about where my focus should be during the holidays. I was struggling with the powerful materialism that seems to consume the majority of the population around Christmas. Everyone comes up with a list of material possessions that they want for Christmas, and often times this becomes the selfish focus of the holiday. I want this, I want that, etc. People spend more money during the holidays that pretty much any other time of year, and the majority of the moola is going into large corporate retail companies. All of these thoughts were unsettling for me, and I wanted to make sure that I did not have a focus on myself but rather a focus on others and what I could do for them.Now...before I continue, you will need to understand that I eventually came to the realization that giving gifts to each other is not a bad thing. As I was struggling with this conflict of whether or not I should buy anything for myself, if it was even ok to ask for presents that would benefit me, or if the idea of giving material goods was ok, I realized that shopping for and giving presents is completely fine! The simple fact that I was struggling with the concept and I was not consumed with materialism showed that my heart was in the right place (as my husband helped me see). While there are definitely people who get consumed by materialism during Christmas season, simply exchanging material goods does not mean I have to be consumed by it myself.
Giving gifts at Christmas originated from St. Nicholas in Greece, who would go around at night on December 6th and give gifts to children who were less fortunate than others. I think it is so cool to see where the tradition came from and the great heart and act that started it all. What a great opportunity to be generous to those who may not have as much as you, and show Christ's love through the giving of a gift to friends and family. If our mindset is one of generosity and love, then I believe giving gifts can be a beautiful tradition and action!
With this mindset, I believe that it is perfectly fine to give gifts that you find in large retail chains and department stores. I myself will be purchasing some gifts from those companies this year. However, I would also encourage you to consider what kinds of gifts you can give to others that will have a deeper meaning behind them and will contribute to helping others. Many people have their own small businesses, shops, or homemade goods. Christmas is a great time to show our support and use some of their items as awesome gifts. Additionally, there are numerous organizations that are trying to make a difference in the world in a plethora of ways by providing water, food, clothes, end to slavery, restoration, etc. In the midst of your Christmas shopping, consider supporting these organizations by finding beautiful Christmas gifts for family and friends through their stores that help them continue their cause in changing a little piece of the world. I have listed a few websites below in no particular order.
May we all have truly generous and loving hearts as we give gifts this Christmas, and may we also have ever grateful spirits to God for sending his Son!!! It is truly a time of the year for celebration!
Presenting hope and finding help for people struggling with depression, addiction, self-injury and suicide.
Creating a better world for children.
For every bottle purchased People Water will give an equal amount of clean water to a person in need.
Fights root causes of slavery and human trafficking.
With every pair you purchase, TOMS will give a pair of new shoes to a child in need.
Bringing an end to LRA atrocities in Africa.
Abolishing injustice in the 21st Century (Human Trafficking).
Discover the brands that give back. Every purchase has a story.


















