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The Idea of Giving

Well it is December 1st and Christmas season has officially begun!!!!! Nobody can say it's too early now. ;) With my favorite time of the year comes shopping for presents, decorating the tree, hanging up stockings, making Christmas cookies, listening to Christmas music 24/7 (maybe that's just me!), decorating houses with lights, eating delicious dinners with family, going to Christmas parties, ice skating, and so much more! I love practically everything about the Christmas season...you could say that I am a Christmas FREAK!

Over the past month as I have been preparing and getting excited for the Christmas season to be here, I have been pondering a lot about where my focus should be during the holidays. I was struggling with the powerful materialism that seems to consume the majority of the population around Christmas. Everyone comes up with a list of material possessions that they want for Christmas, and often times this becomes the selfish focus of the holiday. I want this, I want that, etc. People spend more money during the holidays that pretty much any other time of year, and the majority of the moola is going into large corporate retail companies. All of these thoughts were unsettling for me, and I wanted to make sure that I did not have a focus on myself but rather a focus on others and what I could do for them.

Now...before I continue, you will need to understand that I eventually came to the realization that giving gifts to each other is not a bad thing. As I was struggling with this conflict of whether or not I should buy anything for myself, if it was even ok to ask for presents that would benefit me, or if the idea of giving material goods was ok, I realized that shopping for and giving presents is completely fine! The simple fact that I was struggling with the concept and I was not consumed with materialism showed that my heart was in the right place (as my husband helped me see). While there are definitely people who get consumed by materialism during Christmas season, simply exchanging material goods does not mean I have to be consumed by it myself.

Giving gifts at Christmas originated from St. Nicholas in Greece, who would go around at night on December 6th and give gifts to children who were less fortunate than others. I think it is so cool to see where the tradition came from and the great heart and act that started it all. What a great opportunity to be generous to those who may not have as much as you, and show Christ's love through the giving of a gift to friends and family. If our mindset is one of generosity and love, then I believe giving gifts can be a beautiful tradition and action! 


With this mindset, I believe that it is perfectly fine to give gifts that you find in large retail chains and department stores. I myself will be purchasing some gifts from those companies this year. However, I would also encourage you to consider what kinds of gifts you can give to others that will have a deeper meaning behind them and will contribute to helping others. Many people have their own small businesses, shops, or homemade goods. Christmas is a great time to show our support and use some of their items as awesome gifts. Additionally, there are numerous organizations that are trying to make a difference in the world in a plethora of ways by providing water, food, clothes, end to slavery, restoration, etc. In the midst of your Christmas shopping, consider supporting these organizations by finding beautiful Christmas gifts for family and friends through their stores that help them continue their cause in changing a little piece of the world. I have listed a few websites below in no particular order.

May we all have truly generous and loving hearts as we give gifts this Christmas, and may we also have ever grateful spirits to God for sending his Son!!! It is truly a time of the year for celebration!



Presenting hope and finding help for people struggling with depression, addiction, self-injury and suicide.

Creating a better world for children.

For every bottle purchased People Water will give an equal amount of clean water to a person in need.

Fights root causes of slavery and human trafficking.

With every pair you purchase, TOMS will give a pair of new shoes to a child in need.

Bringing an end to LRA atrocities in Africa.

Abolishing injustice in the 21st Century (Human Trafficking).

Discover the brands that give back. Every purchase has a story. 

And We're Back!!!!

Well I've been off the blogging map for a while....only a whole YEAR! I've decided it would be beneficial if I started "talking" via my blog, so Bo doesn't have to hear me babble on and on. Now you all can enjoy it! 

There will be many more blogs to come in the future, but I'll use this first one to recap what has happened in our lives in the past year.

 
We've spent time with family...the Bowman boys
Got to celebrate Brooklynn's 2nd Birthday in February
We are so blessed with such wonderful family!

 Spring break was fun time with my cousin Kelsey visiting us out here in California!



We had a blast at Disneyland and California Adventure.


 Bo and I got to visit Santa Barbara and explore the beautiful coastal town. Including the gorgeous architecture at the courthouse, awesome view from its bell tower, and delicious Mac's Fish and Chips that was featured on Diners, Drive-Ins, and Dives. 



 We got to take another trip down to Mission Beach in San Diego to spend a weekend with friends at Lorna's beach house. This are always such fun and cherished times with our closest friends.
 Played a little beach wiffle ball

 So blessed to have these people in our lives.....now if only we all lived closer! ;)

 Got to celebrate Josh and Paige's graduation from APU with them! They did it! Future PA and Nurse in a hospital near you.

My parents came out to visit in May, and we got to spend lots of quality time together! We cherish the few times we get to be together and not 1500 miles apart. 

 Almonds at the Bowman farm
 The big walnut trees on the Bowman farm.

 We spent some days at the beach digging holes, playing frisbee, and laying in the sun!



We celebrated our ONE YEAR anniversary in July by taking a backpacking trip in the Sierra Mountains to Cliff Lake at 9,000ft. We loaded up our packs and got a seriously great workout. 
 We climbed up a nearby mountain to 10,000ft and the most BEAUTIFUL view I have EVER seen in my life!!!!! This picture does not even come close to doing it justice! God's creation is so freaking amazing and gorgeous!

Bo loves fly fishing and he got to spend lots of time catching dinner and teaching me how to properly cast without hooking a tree, my clothes, the ground, or Bo. ;) 

Once again, pure natural beauty one morning on the lake! AMAZING!

In August we got to fly to Seattle to see some close friends, which was a much needed fix!
 The main reason for the trip was to see my beautiful friend and freshman roommate, Andrea Berkey (now Hilliard) get married! It was such a beautiful wedding filled with God's love!


That pretty much brings us to now. We have been enjoying fall (decorating the apartment, eating all of our Halloween candy, carving angry bird pumpkins, drinking apple cider, etc) and waiting for the "cold" weather to come. Instead, we had a record breaking high today of almost 90 degrees in Camarillo. (Camarillo is on the coast, so this is SUPER hot for us! We are used to mid 70's weather most of the time.)

All in all, God has blessed us over and over this past year, and we are so thankful for each and every blessing!

More to come soon!